Are You Being Your Own Worst Enemy

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Are You Being Your Own Worst Enemy

I felt compelled to write this post on having a conversation with a lovely friend of mine and then seeing more people doing this on Facebook.

I know, sometimes we can't help ourselves, we 'see' someone apparently doing so much better than we feel we are doing ourselves and sigh in frustration and think

'When am I going to be as good????'.....

This rang so many alarm bells, I just had to share my experience...

I spent many years dressing like other people,

Copying other people's handwriting.....

having my hair cut like other people- I know hilarious right....

Teachers would say to me 'did you do this work Helen?'

because my hand writing would be different every day !!

Quite hilarious really when I look back.....

I did the very same in this business until very recently.....

What helps me on my journey is the quote;

Are You Being Your Own Worst Enemy

This helps me Soooo much....because I know 

I'm not like Anyone else...I have my own journey, my own path

At My Own Pace....

So when this friend was telling me that she was comparing herself to someone else,

I said 'STOP' Right Now....

We must remember that we don't know anyone else's story......

The other day in my 'Teams' Facebook group- we all posted our 'stories', what bought us to where we are Now...

It was such an Eye Opener, to read of people's struggles with Abuse, Violence, Single Parents....

Really you have No idea what is going on in someone else's life.

I remember about a year back, everyone around me seemed to be doing so much better than I was...and for me this was something that I always felt in my youth - I always felt 'left behind'...

Then I would hear stories about these other 'Successful' people how they had been doing marketing for years....or they had had success previously....

The other thing you must bear in mind

.....is Mindset...

When people have been 'wealthy' and yes I mean, having money previously, thats a mindset - and once you've 'learnt' how to 'attract' money...how to 'make' money ONCE...its ALOT easier to make 'big' money again.

Where as if you've never had a lot of money - it takes Serious work on your  Mindset, which of course is a major part of this business and remember Mindset is 80% of Your success....

Are You Being Your Own Worst Enemy

So if you want to Catch up with Big Boys....regardless of where they have been or what their story is - then Work On Your Mindset, by following the 30.30.30 rule...

Stop Comparing Yourself To Others....

You, Yes YOU have so much to Offer....

your experience

Your Life

The things you've been through,

Whatever you are going through Right Now...

 Work on your Mindset

And Belief and Knowing that you Are Just As Good as Anyone....

And Yes 'I Will Get There'.....

Everyone is different .

But we have something wonderful to offer other people too...

We have our own 'path to follow'.....

So Get Following that Path.....

With Your Own Belief, Determination and Persistence....

Helen

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What Does Freedom Mean To You

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What Does Freedom Mean To You

What Does Freedom Mean To You

I have to confess when I first saw these two amazing people on stage, I really didn't 'get them'...they were far too 'woo hoo' for me....but I guess, back then I hadn't grown as much as I have today.....

Now these two people, epitomize what this business is about...

 they are not about the glitz and glamour, even though they are millioinaires (income disclaimer)...they are about Caring, Freedom, Making a Difference in the world..and thats what I am about...

Recently, there was an event in Orlando, and whilst I could not be there, I did watch the Live Steam on my computer.....

Justin and D Verrangia, stood up on stage as they always do...they stand out...to me they are like Mother Teresa but with more attitude.....ha ha

They uplift people like no one else can. Don't get me wrong, other leaders uplift too, but Justin and D are just different...

They are not about the 'big money' or the nice ring you get once you become a millionaire, they are about what the money can do for Others...and yes its great to have lots of money. 

What what We ALL want..but the question is

'why do you want that money?'.

I started this business because I wanted enough money so I could help other people, in whatever way I wanted to. Yes I would like (and indeed I will have) a nice house on the beach and freedom to travel, but aside from that I want to help as many people as I can - get what they want, be the best person they can be.

Thats exactly what Justin and D want....

They talked about putting shoes on children's feet who have never had shoes on their feet... 

Having clean unflourinated water to drink....

Helping Others Achieve Their Freedom

Being Able to Eat whatever you want to eat,

the Really good food that costs so much more...

Education for ALL children...

Justin carries a Light Saver with him and hes called the Jedi...:)

Do you know why?  

Because he sees himself as a protector of people...

Thats what I see myself as too.

I grew up being insecure, being bullied, not being able to stand up for myself,

so what do I do now?  I find myself standing up for others....

I always want to stand up for what i believe in - because I couldn't do that 

when I was younger and I know others can't always do it...

So that is One of my passions,

helping people who cannot help themselves...

Giving them the 'Basic' needs they need,

so they can help themselves...

This is what this business is about.....

Its why Myself and My colleagues are Soo Passionate about it..

Helen

 

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The Blue Print To Success

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I find it fascinating...how the Universe delivers Just what you need.....

Over the last few days, I have had sooo many 'messages' about acheiving your goals and what it takes, as I am well on the way to achieving mine, so I wanted to share them with you....

I shared some of this in my previous blog the other day

'Whats your Daily Routine'

So what else can you do.....

You Have to Start Believing that You Can Do this....

As Lisa Nichols said in the Secret "I Know Like I Know, like I know'...

 

Well here you go

 The Blue print To Success

Success on line is 80% Mindset and 20% Mechanical

So what does that tell you?  

That you Have TO invest in the 30.30.30 rule...

See my blog above..

Write Out In Detail what You want to Achieve in 90 days...

in Business

in Health

Relationships

Lifestyle....

Spend at least 30-60 minutes doing this....

Have a Clear Target that you can actually see

(create vision Board)

Go through magazines, the internet.....everywhere and anywhere and find things that appeal to you - things that stand out to you - print them out, tear them out and put them on your vision board.

Get one of these cheques (simply google, secret cheque and you will get an image)

Write the cheque out to yourself for the amount you want - make it a bit of a stretch for you but something that you think 'Ooh I can do that' at a push......and put it on your vision board.

 I did this - I had two different cheques on my vision board and a few months later, I got a tax rebate of the combined amount !! :)

Write a description of what you want (goal card and carry it with you Everywhere you go) - you can make this briefer...

For example

Success = $10,000 a month

Fit and Healthy

Loving Partner

Living on the Beach..

Or whatever applies to you...

So what are you waiting for...get going :)

Do let me know how you get on....

Helen

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When You Lose Those Special People

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When You Lose Those Special People

I saw a wonderful post today which inspired me to write this one........

I have lost Several Special people in my life.....

My Grandma, who I lost over 20 years ago....

- I have a favourite pink jumper, that was my grandma's, in fact I think she knitted it herself...and yets its not something you imagine an older lady to wear, yet if you saw this jumper - you would Never think it was over 20 years old, and much less worn by an 'elderly lady'......

No this isn't the jumper but its very similar......

Darren was in the kitchen when I picked up Libby's hairbrush. I tweaked a curling strand from the brush and slid my finger along it. Twisted, bumpy, golden, I held it soft and felt her. I felt with her. I slipped the hair into my pocket.

 

I remember so much about my grandma. She was a real 'welsh' lady....used to dress very grandly when she went out.  She was in my memory always large buxom woman..... She used to say;

'Helen your determined, determined you are'

in a very welsh accent, and I was and still am, thank god.

I have two last memories of my grandma.

One when I said goodbye to her in 1988 when I was leaving the UK to move to New Zealand.

I can see her now, standing in the door way of her flat, saying goodbye and telling my partner 'you take care of her'....and blowing kisses as we walked down the stairs....

Then sadly, I returned two years later, when she was very ill at 82...she was a shadow of her former self, very thin and frail, but I am so glad I got to see her before she passed.  

Another envelope. I curled the hair into a tiny sideways figure eight eternity symbol. Dropped it into the envelope. Squinted into the white to confirm the hair was there. Sealed the envelope. Found a pen. What to write, what to write. I wanted to say something like DO NOT THROW OUT but it seemed like a bit of an invitation. Terrible handwriting, it says, Libby. Keep forever.

Then my God Mother, yes whilst I'm not relgious now and neither are my family, I was christened when I was young and my god mother was very special to me.  I would always go and see her when I went home...

My last memory of my Godmother is just after my son was born nearly 18 years ago, she held him in her arms....thats my last memory, but what a beautiful memory.....

My sister died 7 years ago...I have blogged about her before... i have a few things of my sisters that I refuse to give away....  My sister was a career woman...and she would give me some of her 'old' business jackets though they were not 'old' at all. They were just ones she had finished with...

I have such many fond memories of my sister - her doing my hair when I was younger, giving me highlights, sitting in the kitchen in her flat.....

My sister had found her ''true love' very early on in life and I remember her telling me as she did my hair

'If I didn't have him, I wouldn't have anyone'.....

She would always give me advice on boys/men.....

Then there is my dad who passed away 3 years ago....My father was a real contradiction in my life....very strong, assertive and yet taught me to appreciate nature, never to dismiss anyone as you never know what they could do for you...and to enjoy life.

Was quite funny on going through his photos after he passed, was so funny to see his life he lived when not with us, he travelled extensively, did paragliding...walked the Great Wall of China - my dad was very adventurous - I follow him very much in all sorts of ways.  

 

I have lots of ornaments of my dads..and as with my sister, I am aware of mannerisms I have which both my sister and my dad had....

Then there is my Zoe - my fur baby....who passed away a year ago in the next week or so.  The biggest loss in my life - which I always feel so guilty saying - but the reason she lefft such a huge void, was because other than my ex husband and my children - she was a constant in my life for 14 years....

She saw me through so much. I had waited until we stopped travelling between the UK and New Zealand, which we did for 6 years and as soon as we settled in New Zealand - I saw Zoe at a pet shop, I fell in love with her. 

She was the 'shy' one in the litter....very nervous and with my background (I was very shy and nervous when young) I just took to her straight away....

I named her even before she was mine, after my sister's chidlren's nanny....just loved the name.

Zoe saw me through everything - divorce, bullying, ill health, moving house about 3 times..and the bereavements.

She was there through all of it. She was such a good friend...

So what do I have of Zoe's....well I have the remains of her ashes in my side board (oh yes thats my grandmas, all the way from South Wales!!)... 

I have her collar and council tag...I also have a photo of her in a frame a lovely neighbour (who incidently didn't even like her) gave to me - when I was broken hearted....with this card..... which truly summed Zoe up....

Zoe had a few health scares before she finally went....

She ate rat poison about 5 years ago - we had actually taken her to the night vet to put her down and he picked up the rat poison and there she was - she had spent All day at another vets and they could not find out what was wrong - and in two minutes he did - and thankfully bought her back from the brink....

So there you go.... 

Losing someone is different for everyone - there is no 'set time frame' or 'you will feel this, this and this'....and it doesn't matter whether its human or animal - the hurt is still god awful.....

I remember when my sister passed and my parents were going through the horrendous grief - I used to say to them and others 'Remember the good times'  - it was only on losing Zoe that I thought that was 'utter crap'....as you don't want to remember the good times - you want them back RIGHT NOW....

Alas - you have no choice..and yes I know they say 'there is no death' and that 'they are always with you'...it doesn't matter to me how many people tell me that...

The fact that I can't turn to my sister, Grandma, dad, Godmother and have an Actual person to person conversation and hug with them or run my fingers through Zoe's coarse but adorable fur - just isn't the same.....

I feel their presence All the time - whenever I hear the birds sing, or this beautiful video...I think of my dad.....

We played this music at my dad's 'celebration'...which I found so synchonistic when I found this video - this sight, along with other wonderful sights of nature just used to 'send' my dad - his whole life was about Nature, as well as eating and drinking good food !! oh yes and returning something you had given him because he didn't like it :)

I see my sister All the time in her two girls, which is both wonderful and breaks my heart, both at the same time.

She would be soo proud and it just breaks my heart, thats shes not around to see them grow into the beautiful girls they are.  I have no doubt that she sees them and she is proud, however it's not the same as being here in person to see it, and be part of their lives....

I do believe Everything happens for a reason - and I have learnt from each and every one of my 'Special People''s passing.....and for me whilst I know when I look up at the sky- that they are up there smiling down.... I am thank ful for what each and every one of them has taught me...

To  love people,

to Tell people and to Just Let things Go....

Life Really is too short, to have it any other way..

Helen

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Can You Relate to Michelle

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Can You Relate to Michelle

I am constantly blown away by the type of people that this business attracts... 

Everyone, from single mums, people who have been broke etc. I can't tell you the number of times I have been amazed, when one of the 'leaders' speaks up and says 'yes I suffered with anxiety' or 'Yes I was bankrupt'.....

These people are just like "You and Me" - who have taken the step to change their life and 'do whatever it takes' and look at them now....

Today amongst others we met Michelle, who by her own admission had gone through many challenges that we can all identify with us and yet shes turned her life around...

Can You Relate to Michelle

Whilst Michelle stood on the stage, she showed us her 3 gorgeous children, I personally didnt' think she was old enough to have three chidlren (one was 15)...and then she showed us what she had been through..

super shy

introverted

broke

no career experience

homeless

welfare

anxiety attacks

cult

suicidal

not valuable

verge of bankruptcy

hopeless

Can You Relate to Michelle

 I don't know about you, but I can relate to several of those things in my past...I was super shy and have blogged about that,  i have had anxiety attacks, very recently actually (caused by challenges I have gone through)

Now through blogging Michelle has;

mentored 10,000 people through her blog

40-50,000 unique visitors  wow....

6 figures in the last year thanks to her blog...

Inspired? 

Think 'Well if she did it I CAN Do it'...

Yes You Absolutely Can...

Come find out More Here...

Ready to join us?

 

Helen

 

 

me having a blast with my two gorgeous 'human' babies :)

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