Whats Your Daily Routine

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Whats Your Daily Routine

I saw this great interview with one of my fantastic colleagues in this business ...and decided to share it in a blog post...

Paul Barroso, A Portuguese Brit , was interviewed about what he does on a daily basis, this is just part of his daily routine..

Read For 30 minutes

Anything Empowering - Wayne Dyer, Power of Intention

Napolean Hill, Think and Grow Rich

Your Why Simon Sinek...This was a powerful book for me - because it really eptomises what we have here in this business. I was transfixed by this book, I actually have it on Audio, I could not put it down....

Whats Your Daily Routine

Listen to An Audio for 30 minutes

I have numerous books on my iphone

Abraham Hicks

Wayne Dyer - The Power of Intention...

Rhonda Byrne, The Secret, The Power, Magic...

Watch 30 minutes of empowering material....

he mentions this video

Whats Your Daily Routine

Do this for 30 days and see your life change -

see your Paradigmn change.

Your Mindset, Your Confidence,

Your Whole Attitude to life will change....

Comment Now and Then Come Back in 30 days and tell me how different you are, how different your life is, Relationships are.

See you soon

And If you can't wait for 30 days - then Join us Here and Start Making A Difference today

I will see you on the inside :)

~Helen~

PS yes I've posted 3 videos here - only because I wanted to Put as much value in this blog as possible, but Read, Listen, Watch...so ensure you do that Every day 30 - 30 -30

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Things Are Not Always What They Seem

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Things Are Not Always What They Seem

 

Do you realise that people/things are rarely as you see them….take the ice burg above !!

 

We tend to look at someone and say ‘look at her, look at the life she has, how lucky she is, how beautiful she is, surrounded by people’… and 'judge' that they/she has IT ALL....

I remember many years ago - after going through a relationship break up - a relationship that I had thought would last for the rest of my life…… I would go out with my children and look at all these ‘happy families’…..wishing I was one of them.. thinking 'I knew how happy' they were....

It was only later, on talking to various 'happy families' I started to realise that in reality I had 'no idea' what was really going on...

I have learnt since is that Everyone - Absolutely Everyone has their own battle….

Things Are Not Always What They Seem

I have some lovely friends - who on the outside have a very busy social life, a lovely partner…lovely children, so seemingly from the outside, people would think ‘what a perfect’ life’….

 

However, knowing these friends as I do - I know that they too have battles….

I was having dinner with a friend the other evening and I told her of an article I had read about Elle McPherson (famous Australian model)…and how when she was young how insecure she had been…..my friend laughed (incidentally my friend is Also gorgeous)…..

‘Yeh Right’…..she said....

We assume because someone has what we perceive as ‘beauty’ maybe money….a loving partner, family - that they have it all, that they can't possibly be 'insecure' or have 'issues'...

How wrong we are sometimes.....

 It all Starts Within 

You know you can be surrounded by people, and still be lonely….

How do you cure that?  - By learning to love yourself

Learning to Love Your Own Company, because sometimes its good for you :)

I was watching an interview with Stephen Fry (British Comedian and actor) the other day…who was great friends with the late Great Robin Williams…..

 

In Stephen’s words

‘He was able to make millions happy, just not  himself’……

Being happy and Content, sounds Simple..but it takes Work for some people....

It can take Years to work on your mindset to achieve that level of Happiness…..

Things Are Not Always What They Seem

Psycho Cybernetics…..written by Maxwell Waltz…… who was a Plastic Surgeon….

 

He realised through his work - that whilst some people could have a new nose and be very happy, other people, it didn’t matter what corrections he made to their face/body - they still were not happy..because happiness comes from Within…..

I have had friends  - who were not beautiful, not particuarly slim, but they were happy, they were bubbly and they had lots of friends and never had a problem with boyfriends…Why….??

Inner Beauty - Inner Happiness…..

Many years ago I worked as a Nurse in a Plastic Surgery ward....

Plastic surgery differs from Cosmetic Surgery in that Plastic surgery is done on patients who have a disfigurment or an accident....

I remember one particular patient, we shall call him Alan....Alan was a young man who had been involved in a Chemical explosion....he had his face blown off...

his eyes were gone, he had part of his nose left and he had his mouth...but most of his hair, his face was gone.  

Alan was an Amazing young man and all the staff loved looking after him.... Alan was a long term patient because having that type of reconstructive surgery was an on-going process.  

Now I don't imagine for one minute that Alan was without his battles....however he dealt with it with such amazing fortitude. People like him always inspire me, much like Jon from yesterday...

Take Katie,  having worked with Alan and other patients who were the victims of terrible accidents, I followed Katie....

Katie was a young beautiful women who knew she was beautiful and as she stated herself was rather 'self absorbed', she led the 'party' style life, until she had acid thrown in her face by an ex boyfriend... read her story here

Katie became a changed person following her 'accident' and dedicated her life to helping others who like her, were disabled, deformed.... and now after many many operations, she has gone on to meet someone and have a baby....

So what is the lesson we can learn here….

Don't judge people, don't assume that because someone 'seemingly' has it all, that they are Happy 

Finally a personal story...growing up I wasn't confident..yes I was slim and very pretty but for various reasons, I had 0 confidence....

Back then I would look at my friends and wish I was them....they had blonde hair and blue eyes, maybe they were more curvacious than I was....

There was I, slim  with darker hair and brown eyes...

It wasn't until very recently that I started to realise that I am Fine just the way i am - I may not be Blonde (well I have been in the last few years lol) and blue eyed, but Im attractive, both inside and out just the way I am...

and btw..its Perfectly Ok to think that about yourself... No I'm not perfect...but No one is...no model, no actor..no singer....

They make look 'perfect' but until you've walked in someone's shoes, you have no idea...whats actually going on inside their head/heart....

So....

Be Kind to Everyone, regardless of how they are acting...and that includes YOU..be Kind to Yourself...

Start to work on your Mindset…. 

Learn to Love Yourself Just the Way You Are

Appreciate What You Have....

Start to Look in the Mirror and Fall In Love with YOU...

Be Good to Yourself...

Remember, Everyone has Their Own Battle....and Things Are Rarely What They Seem

be Happy..:)

~Helen~

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Life is full of challenges...we ALL go through them, some more than others....

What You Can Achieve When You Push Through Those Challenges

there is a great saying

'its not what happens to you,

its the way you handle it

and that is so true...

We have Cristina Munoz who 'despite' being stuck on bed rest, still manages to write a blog and build a team of hundreds AND inspire people....

Whenever I go through challenges, especially with my business, I think of Edison

10,000 Attempts - to invent the lightbulb, Can You Imagine trying 9,000 + times...how despondent you would feel?

 Seriously.... I mean how many people would have kept going but look at the light bulb now !!!

me with Cristina when she managed to get to Orlando last year

What You Can Achieve When You Push Through Those Challenges

Then there is this guy - Just amazing....

I didn’t see him coming, and I don’t remember much about the accident, but I do remember being pulled out of my minivan with my shirt on fire. The front end of the van was torn off, gasoline was everywhere, and my legs were broken in 14 places.

I was just blown away when I saw this blog

This guy gave up everything and moved to Mexico...

Great you may think - until you read the rest of his blog.....

Meet Jon

How to Quit Your Job, Move to Paradise and Get Paid to Change the World

and be prepared to Change Your Mind about what you Can Achieve.....

Helen

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Building Relationships On Facebook - Part II with Jessica Higdon

 

So on building your business, one of the most important things to do is to connect with people, build relationships..... People Join people they Know Like And Trust....

This training does just that - its about connecting with people, getting to know them and HELP them....

Jessica Higdon, one half of the Power Couple, Ray and Jessica, did a great training, 

Here I share some nuggets she shared...

Jessica has built a six figure business helping people with these stragies...so enjoy

This takes Consistent action on Facebook....

Every day...

3 posts of imagery - lifestyle

2 posts of random questions

2 posts of great resources

Connect with people

When people share or Like your posts.....

Send them a message....

Hi, noticed that you are sharing my stuff,

and just wanted to say thanks, how did you find my profile….

Make your message personal- Be Yourself :)

Using their first name, Look at their profile first

Do you have something in common, do they seem positive?

hobbies? someone I want to work with?

(If they have lots of games or only photos of themselves, I retreat!!)

 keep your first message link free? (I was sending people great blog posts by others..so thats a No No !! :)

Building Relationships On Facebook  - Part II with Jessica Higdon

Common leading questions

what do you do?

how long have you been doing it for?

you must be pretty happy then…

have you ever considered doing anything else

whats stopping you?

if I could show you something would you be interested in taking a look

what stops you from leaving your job

what stops you from doing your hobby

do you have kids, how old are they?

how many hours a week do you work

Closing Questions.....

based on what you’ve shared with me I think you

may want to take a look at what I do, I don’t know if

the business is a fit for you but I think you would love

the product…

This may or may not be for you but…

So there you go, simple huh....just connect, build a relationship, get to know them and Then see if its for them. It Really is just as you would build a relationship off line...finding out if someone is happy with what they currently do and if not....

Thats Ok.......

So what you waiting for...GO...

oh and here is the training...be quick..not sure how long it will be up for

~helen~

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What IPAS2 Can Do For You

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What IPAS2 Can Do For You

Sometimes you hear from someone and what they say hits you between the eyes...

This was the case with the call I heard this morning from the wonderful Elya Matthews....

Elya is brand new to this business, but she has 'got it' almost overnight...

Whatever you are doing, you have to hav,

Passion, Belief, Conviction...

As Elya says 'its not about the money' its about Helping Others to Get What They Want....

Elya has this and it shines through in this interview.

So what is stopping You?

This system is Simple, after the initial set up...

Come say hi to me on facebook...

Even better come and say hi to me after joining here...

Helen

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