You can Live Your Dream…

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You can Live Your Dream…

I have been listening to this Every day for the last x weeks...

I LOVE this I decided to Transcribe it.....

There is sooo much truth in these words...

We Doubt Ourselves every day, but listening to this video...

Every Day - has Lifted me When I have Really Needed it....

Enjoy and Watch This Every day... transcribe it if you have to....

I don’t know what that dream is that you have

I don’t care how disappointing it may 

have been as you work towards that dream

But that dream you hold in your mind  - that it’s possible

That some of you already know it’s hard, it’s not easy


It’s hard changing your life

That in the process of working on your dreams

you are going to incur a lot of

d i s a p p o i n t m e n t

A lot of failure

A lot of pain

Moments where you are going to doubt yourself

And you will ask God

‘why is this happening to me?

Im only trying to help my

Children, mother, I’m not trying to steal or rob from anyone why is this happening to me?'

Those of you who are experiencing some hardships

Don’t Give Up on your Dreams

Hardships have not come to stay, they have come to pass


‘Greatness is not this wonderful esoteric illusive god life feature that only the special amongst us will ever taste'

 Its something that truly exists in all of us

It’s very important for you to believe that YOU ARE The One

Most people raise a family earn a living and then they die


They stop growing, 

they stop working on themselves they stop stretching.

they stop pushing themselves

A lot of people like to complain

but they don’t want to do anything about their situation

Most people don’t work on their dreams,


One is because of fear, failure

What if Things Don’t Work Out'


And the fear of Success,

What If I do and I can’t handle it ?


These are not risk takers

You spend so much time with other people 

you spend so much time getting people to like you

You know other people more than you know yourself

You study them you know about them,

your going to hang out with them

You want to be just like them

And you know what you

You spend so much time with them you don’t even know yourself

I challenge you to spend time by yourself


Its necessary you get the losers out of your life

If you want to live your dream

People who are running towards their dream,

life has a special kind of meaning

When you become the Rightperson,

what you do is separate yourself form other people

You begin to have a certain type of uniqueness

As long as you are a copy cat you will

become the best copycat in the world

But you will be the best you can be…

You define your value

Everybody won’t see it

Everybody won’t join you

Everybody won’t see the vision

Its necessary to know that..

You are unstoppable

Remember That…

Its Necessary that you Align yourself with People and You Attract

People in to your business who are unstoppable

People who are unwilling to accept life as it is

And More Want…

The people who are living their dreams

The people who are living their dreams are the ones who know that if I’m to be successful its up to Me…


You don’t know have to go through life being a victim

Someone’s opinion of you does not have to be come your reality

Even if no one sees this for me, I see it for myself

No matter how bad it gets, Im going to make it

IF you want to be more successful, you have to invest in YOU

Someone’s opinion of you does not have to be become your reality

You don’t have to go through life being a victim…


This is what I believe

and I'm willing to Die for it Period

No Matter How Bad it is or how bad it gets,

I’m going to win!! I'm going to Make It


I want to represent A possibility, An Idea

Some of you want to go to the next level…

You can’t get to that level economically until you invest in your mind

You need to read books

Go to Conferences

I dare you to spend time alone getting to know yourself.

When you become who you are

When you become The person you are designed to be..

I challenge you to get to a level where people

Where people don’t even bother you anymore…

If you still talk about your dream, or about your goal

But you have not done anything?

Just take the first step

You can make your parents proud

You can make your school proud

The world will never be the same again

Because you came this way

Don’t let nobody steal your dreams

You have a rejection

Or you have a meeting and nobody shows up


No body believes in you,

You’ve lost again

The lights gone off

But you are still looking at your dream

And Say its Not Over

Until I WIN

You can Live Your Dream…


So what is Stopping you?

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Someone Trying to Squash your Dreams


Someone Trying to Squash your Dreams?

I've had a few conversations lately with people whose husbands/partners etc are giving them a hard time about spending money or their business...

It's understandable... your dream perhaps arn't theirs...

or you haven't involved them in it, because frankly, you have doubts yourself... 

You Really want to succeed but your frankly, a bit scared...

That is Absolutely normal....

I laugh at myself actually...

20+ years ago I did a bungy and then nearly 4 years ago I did a sky dive...

They thrilled me,  Really!! ~ the Biggest Buzz Ever

yet some things in this business scare the C**p out of me !!

Crazy huh..Yes I know...

So what do you do when you are 'following' your passion?

your dream?

and your partner/husband/friends are not supporting you

in fact they are bringing you down...

the stress levels are shooting through through the roof....

and quite frankly

'I don't need this' !! :)

Well there are a few things you can do...

Include them in your dream, Your Big Audacious Goal

...share with them what you want to achieve, talk to them about it...

If you light the fire enough in their belly too, then they will be Right on Board with you.

Stick to the 30.30.30 - this will Empower you, Motivate you, Change your Mindset... by reading/watching and empowering yourself with Positive Material for 30 days...

Give them the time they deserve.

Ensure you include your partner/friends in your day to day activites.  Ensure you spend some time with them before or after you work on your business, so they don't feel neglected. 

There is nothing worse for getting your partners back up or friends for that matter, than shutting them out, whilst you work on your 'dream'.

Reward them when you start to have that success.. treat them to a weekend away or a meal out - or something so that they see they will get some benefit as you succeed.

Remember this is Your Dream! 

Don't Let Anyone Else Rain on Your Parade....

I have heard people share their stories - where by their partner didn't want to travel so they haven't travelled.  Yes its a tough one, when your loved one and you want different things but you don't want to be one of those people in the grave yard or on your death bed, wishing or wondering 'what might have been'???

Get them to one of the events...getting to these conferenes and masterminding with other Positive people who have Sooo empowering..and it makes you realise (and your partner) that 'they' that is 'the rich and famous' are frankly no different to you or I..really they are not...

I've heard many stories, where as soon as the partner got to an event, then everything changed....

Get them to talk to a 'converted' other half of someone else who was skeptical like them....

Seriously - if you have a BIG AUDACIOUS Goal

Don't Let Anyone Or Anything Stand In Your Way!

Do Everything in your power to Make It Happen...

When you break through those Challenges and Achieve your goals

and if your detractors care about you enough - they will be right beside you

Cheering you on..


So what is your goal, Please tell me the comments, 

What You Want to Achieve, I'd love to hear yours..


Come say hi to me on facebook - I''d love to get to know you...

And come join us and we will help you achieve those dreams


What Do You Want And Why


What Do You Want And Why

You Need To Ask Yourself These Questions

I'm going to be totally honest here...

I'm very happy, I have a lovely life... 

I have two gorgeous children

A loving family

But I know I have 'gremlins' from my past

that come up from time to time

We ALL do...

Someone will say something to me

and its as if I were back in that classroom

Where I felt so 'small' and I'm no longer

the Strong, Empowered Helen Lingard

That everyone knows... 

I'm 'Helen Lingard' the shrinking violet

that I was 30 years ago...

So when I went through this excercise

At first I thought

"its not working'

But then as I followed the instructions and dug deeper

I started to feel my face crumble and the tears come...

Its Powerful and its Scary but its Sooo good for you...

Here is the Hang out and I've put the questions below..

but Do them Whilst you watch the Hang out

 thats where the Power is

Creating Your Well Informed Outcome

So think of your goal, what you want to achieve in life....

We think we want things for a certain reasons,

but when we really dive deep, we Find out what we REALLY want...

1. What Do You Really want? I mean REALLY want??

2. How Will You Know When You Have Achieved This Goal?

 3. What Evidence will there be? bank balance/ how will you know?

4. What resources do you need to achieve this?

5.What do I need to do to make this happen

6. Can I achieve this Alone, or do I need other people to make my goal happen?

7. What are the advantages and Disadvantages of achieving my goal

8. What does achieving this goal mean for me?

9. When you have achieved this outcome what will this mean for you?

Keep asking yourself..

Each time you write an answer down ask yourself the same question, No 9

Ask Again

Ask Again - You will have a shift on the third, fourth or fifth time.

Keep asking until you get your answer... which will be a RELIEF...

A Breakthrough....

Good Huh?

oh and this is Power of the "Tribe" I'm part of... 


Supporting and Helping

You Achieve Your goals

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Things Happy Health People Do Every Morning


  1. Gratitude - they wake up feeling grateful... Aka Being Thankful...

Consider how very fortunate you are. 

Consider it every morning. 

The more you count your blessings, the more blessings there will be to count, and the happier you will be.

List at least 10 things Every morning that you are grateful for.

Food in the fridge

The Loves one in your life

A Great Nights Sleep

Money in your pocket

The birds you can hear singing

The blue/grey or even dark eye you can see

2.  Start Anew each day - Doesn't matter how bad the previous day was

Today is  A New Day...

Don’t rent it out to the past.  Don't Let your History Dictate your Future. 

Let today be the day you stop being a victim. Yes I know, its've been through tough times, but until you let go of it, you are never going to find that happiness.

You have the power and the time to shape the rest of this day. 

3.  Start with Purposeful start to the day. 

 Steve Jobs' morning routine used to start by looking in the mirror and asking,

"If today were the last day of my life,

would I want to do what I am about to do today?" 

And Benjamin Franklin asked himself each morning,

"What good shall I do today?" 

Challenge yourseslf to come up with questions that keep you on track and push you to live a purposeful life. 

Here are three questions I often ask myself: 

What would I like to remember about today? 

How will I sincerely honor my own desires and truth today? 

What can I do to make a positive difference in the world today?

How Many People Can I help Today

Write down your own set of Personal Positive Questions

4.  Read/Watch/Listen to Some thing Positive.

Some happy people read a bit of scripture each morning, while others read inspiring books, articles or quotes to get their day started. 

Either way, they have a ritual to read some form of self-improvement literature to stretch and grow their insight and knowledge. 

It's starts their day off on a positive note with positive, productive ideas to guide their day's journey.  

Make The Time  to create your own sunshine. 

So read something positive every morning when you wake up, and let it inspire you to do something positive before you go back to sleep at night.  

I personally wake up, after meditating for 20 minutes I listen to an Empowering book every morning.

Currently Im listening to Simon Sinek

Start with Why

5.  Follow a  proven morning routine.

Morning routines are critically important. 

They help you focus and build momentum for your day, and they give you the freedom to be present and relaxed – to enjoy just being right where you are each moment, rather than rushing from somewhere to somewhere. 

Once you get your routine in order, for the first time in a long time, you will be able to, quite literally, smell the coffee. 

For truly easy-going mornings, reduce the number of decisions you must make.  There are two simple ways to do this: 

First, make your big morning decisions the night before: what to eat for breakfast, what clothes to wear, what you need to take to work, etc. 

Second, build a simple routine for as much of your daily morning tasks as possible.  Really, there’s no need to drastically alter the simple things like how much time you give yourself to get ready for work, how complex of a meal you make for breakfast, or bathroom and shower rituals from one morning to the next.  

Excercise - I have to be honest, exercise at times keeps me sane.

Something may happen in my life that totally upsets my otherwise great day (lets be honest, it happens to ALL of us. )

I go off to my Bikram Class or Take a Walk and boy does it help.

So there you go - The things Happy and Healthy People Do Every day..

If you are not doing this already - then Now Would be A Great time to start.

Know That You Are Not Alone

There are Many People Who Like You

Are Working on Changing Their Lives For the Better

There is a Community Right Here...

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Me being happy with my daughter...

This blog was inspired by this Marc and Angel Hack

Be Better Than You Were Yesterday


Be Better Than You Were Yesterday

“Those who are able to inspire will create a following of people – supporters, voters, customers, workers – who act for the good of the whole not because they have to, but because they want to.  ~ Simon Sinek

The race starts off and the runners take off…

They Move as One

Like Any race there are the stronger ones

who will start to pull ahead and the weaker ones start to fall behind

But there is one runner who is different

Ben Comen

Ben is not the fastest, in fact he’s the slowest

Ben has not one a single race

Ben has Celebral Palsy

Cerebral palsy, a condition often caused by complications at birth, affects someone’s movement and balance. The physical problems endure for a lifetime. Misshapen spines create a twisted posture. Muscles are often withered and motor reflexes slow. Tightness in the muscles and joints also affect balance. Those with CP often have an unsteady gait, their knees knock and their feet drag. To an outsider, they may seem clumsy. Or even broken.

He has a misshapen spine

Muscles that are withered

This affects his balance

He falls over time and time again

But Ben won’t quit

He knows that whilst everyone

else compete the race in about 25 minutes

it usually takes him 45 minutes

Be Better Than You Were Yesterday

When Ben finishes the race

he is in pain from falling again and 

again and his body is bruised and bloody

But something interesting happens after 25 minutes.

When everyone else is done with their

race, everyone comes back to run with Ben.

Ben is the only runner who when he falls,

someone else will help pick him up.

Ben is the only runner who, when he

finishes, has a hundred people running behind him

So What does Ben Teach Us?

Ben starts every race with a very clear

sense of WHY he’s running.

Hes not there to beat anyone else


Ben Never Loses Sight of that

His Sense of Why gives him the 

strength of Keep Going.

To Keep Pushing

And To Do It Over and Over Again

and Every day he runs the only time

Ben sets out to beat is his own

Imagine if every organization started with WHY.

Decisions would be simpler.

Loyalties would be greater.

Trust would be a common currency.

If our leaders were diligent about starting with WHY,

optimism would reign and innovation would thrive.

As this book illustrates, there is precedence for this standard. No matter the size of the organization,

no matter the industry,

no matter the product or service, if

we all take some responsibility to start with WHY

and inspire others to do the same,

then together,

we can change the world.

So instead of Comparing yourself to Others 

'Im very relaxed, nothing bothers me, Im off in my own little world where everything is Perfect' Ben Comen.

Aim to  Better than you Were Yesterday

Better Than You Were Last Week Last Year...

Part of this blog post were borrowed from MontyRaineys blog, here

Watch the Simon Sinek TED Talk Start With Why 

Great Books Inspire Us - they keep us Motivated, 


What Great Books Are You reading currently?

I strongly suggest you read this one...

Read about Ben Comen Here


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